Nope, not drivin

[Laufen]

I usually think that way, but it get's hard to do after it seems like 4 years of nothing but having what I want dangled in front of me, then have it taken away. Also I see piece of shit people all over facebook that has everything I want. I'm getting closer and closer to 30 and not even close to having a family.

All you see on fb are highlights. You don't see the bulk of people's lives, and you don't see it in context so don't read it that way.

 

[Costanza]

Which part of Jersey were you at? South Jersey and North Jersey are almost like 2 different states. Both parts are horrible though. I did enjoy New England's landscape.. I felt the way you felt when I lived in CT and spent a lot of time in Jersey. I remember the first time I ever driven into the NE by myself... I thought I was driving into hell. TBH I wasn't far from wrong. Now, I'm stuck up here by myself practically. I've been tempted to move back home, but I feel like there is nothing there for me as well. So I'm just sitting here in limbo, waiting for life to tell me what I should do.

What did you not like about CT? I grew up in CT on Long Island Sound. About 20 minutes outside of New Haven. I would prefer to never live there again. I don't hate the place and go back every year for holidays. It's just kind of a boring state and very expensive. The people are a lot different there than they are in GA too (obviously).

 

[Costanza]

I usually think that way, but it get's hard to do after it seems like 4 years of nothing but having what I want dangled in front of me, then have it taken away. Also I see piece of shit people all over facebook that has everything I want. I'm getting closer and closer to 30 and not even close to having a family.

You're not even 30? You've got plenty of time, brother. It'll happen!

 

[fyroc]

You're not even 30? You've got plenty of time, brother. It'll happen!

If I get married at 30... then have kids at 32.. I'll be 50 when they are 18.. 30 is creeping up on me too. See my concern?

 

[Costanza]

If I get married at 30... then have kids at 32.. I'll be 50 when they are 18.. 30 is creeping up on me too. See my concern?

I see your concern, but I got married at 31 and my child will be born right after I turn 33 (this summer). I just don't think you should be concerned. I'm not worried about being 50 when my kid is 18.

 

[Hoss]

We had our third kid when I was 39. She's 4 now

 

[Laufen]

If I get married at 30... then have kids at 32.. I'll be 50 when they are 18.. 30 is creeping up on me too. See my concern?

My in laws adopted a baby that was left on their doorstep when they were 50, they're 68 now and they love it.

 

[AirOpsMgr]

We had our third kid when I was 39. She's 4 now

Damn,
You'll be dead before she graduates college

 

[Hoss]

Damn,
You'll be dead before she graduates college

I know, right.

 

[AirOpsMgr]

I know, right.

Look at the bright side, the cataracts, glaucoma, wheel-chair and oxygen bottle will be way more fun than the first tuition bill

 

[Shemp]

If I get married at 30... then have kids at 32.. I'll be 50 when they are 18.. 30 is creeping up on me too. See my concern?

No....I'll be 47 when my first kid is 18. All that means is hopefully I'll have more than enough security and money to take care of her most of her life. What does it matter how old you are?

Go to Europe.....especially Germany. Most couple don't have kids or even get married until they are in their very late 20s or 30s.

 

[Hoss]

No....I'll be 47 when my first kid is 18. All that means is hopefully I'll have more than enough security and money to take care of her most of her life. What does it matter how old you are?

Go to Europe.....especially Germany. Most couple don't have kids or even get married until they are in their very late 20s or 30s.

I'm 43 and my oldest is 18. I'll be 47 when my middle child is 18 and a whopping 57 when my youngest is 18. She already brags to the other kids how we'll be traveling the world while they're getting their careers started.

 

[Laufen]

No....I'll be 47 when my first kid is 18. All that means is hopefully I'll have more than enough security and money to take care of her most of her life. What does it matter how old you are?

Go to Europe.....especially Germany. Most couple don't have kids or even get married until they are in their very late 20s or 30s.

Or even early 40's.

 

[Mac11FA]

The only thing worse than NJ are the people from NJ!

 

[Hoss]

New Jersey is a great place to be from

 

[Mac11FA]

only in the movies!

 

[Mac11FA]

 

[Mac11FA]

I can see this in Georgia!

 

[Mac11FA]

 

[Laufen]

The only thing worse than NJ are the people from NJ!

The state itself is pretty beautiful. I'd live there if I could export 99.9999% of it's inhabitants.