It’s not that hard. First 8 months suck, after that it’s easier.
I was the furthest thing from a father figure when the wife and I first got married, really didn’t want kids.... now with a 3yo and another on the way, I wouldn’t change a thing.
I’m basically at a stand still with dads stuff. All I have been able to do is cancel the cable... can’t do anything with health insurance,banking,homes or his IRA/401k till I get the “proper” paperwork filled out and submitted.
Having a will woulda been a lot easier.