That doesn't sound bad. Last time I wore plates they were 15ish pounds each. Thats like running around holding 6 bags of sugar and trying to fight. Im glad plate tech has evolved.
My suggestion....dont get shot in the chest. Honestly, i spent enough time training with plates and without. I'll never wear them again. Too cumbersome, and the protection is not worth what you lose in mobility.
Your buddy pulled into his driveway and remembered he was supposed to stop there but forgot to. Said fuck it...I'll just tell him they said they didn't have it. Probably had beer or pussy waiting for him.